Codes of Behavior
Decorum
Webster’s Third International Dictionary defines decorum as, “propriety and good taste especially in conduct, manners, or appearance: correctness”. We practice decorum not only to express our own sense of personal dignity, but also to offer generosity towards others’ feelings and sense of propriety. Accordingly, we practice decorum in our mental attitudes, our speech, and our bodily actions.
Decorum of Body
The area of appropriate dress is extremely important. It is the first visible indication of our awareness and pride. It colors the environment with precision and upliftedness, or sloppiness and casualness. Our appearance reflects our state of mind. The clothing we wear, and how we are groomed affects the attitude of those who approach and interact with us.
Decorum of Speech
Mindfulness of speech - how we speak and the content of expression reveals our sensitivity to ourselves and others. Being precise in the words we use demonstrates our awareness and concern for proper communication. Speaking slowly, enunciating properly and allowing for space to enter into our conversation allows for gentleness and heartfelt exchanges. It gives people time to hear what is being said, and for thoughtful responses. It provides the ground for genuineness to take place.
Swearing and foul language offends others and degrades oneself. It is inappropriate.
Rudeness and hurtful comments about others directly violate our bill of rights.
Gossip about others undermines the sense of school and community, and is destructive of peaceful cooperation.
Decorum of Mind
The quality of being is reflected in how we are. The mind directs all activities and indicates how we respond to ourselves and our environment. It is the foremost indicator of our awareness and training. Everything is an outcome of mind.
The attitude we display in all aspects of our living, colors our world. How we appear visually and move through space, what we say and how we communicate, as well as the attitude and texture of our presence in situations, affects others.
KVA is unique in that a grade is given for Decorum. It is expected that global leaders would be able to live their lives in an elegant and dignified manner with an appreciation for the aesthetic. Students are exposed to enrichment workshops such as flower arranging, feng shui, meditation, calligraphy, manners, etiquette, etc. Learning these paradigms of proper behavior will facilitate the students’ success in the global society.